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What about the Big Stuff? : Finding Strength and Moving Forward When the Stakes Are High
by Richard Carlson

Overview - From the bestselling author of the Don't Sweat series comes a new book that offers advice on how to deal with life's bigger issues.

With more than 21 million copies in print, Richard Carlson's bestselling Don't Sweat series has shown countless families, lovers, and workers how not to sweat the small stuff.  Read more...


 
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Overview
From the bestselling author of the Don't Sweat series comes a new book that offers advice on how to deal with life's bigger issues.

With more than 21 million copies in print, Richard Carlson's bestselling Don't Sweat series has shown countless families, lovers, and workers how not to sweat the small stuff. Now, in his soothing and wise trademark tone, Carlson takes a different approach and discusses life's bigger issues, including dealing with the death of a loved one, how divorce affects your family and friends, confronting illness, whether in yourself or others, and managing difficult financial situations. In chapters such as "Bouncing Back from Divorce," "Finding Life After Death," and "Feel Free to Grieve," Carlson offers healing insight and heartfelt advice on how to find inner peace and strength to deal with the big stuff.



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  • ISBN-13: 9780786868841
  • ISBN-10: 0786868848
  • Publisher: Hyperion Books
  • Publish Date: October 2002
  • Page Count: 294
  • Reading Level: Ages 18-17

Series: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff Series

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Linda Stankard makes her New Year's resolutions at her home in upstate New York.

 
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