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Caring for Mother : A Daughter's Long Goodbye
by Virginia Stem Owens

Overview - Owens gives a clear and realistic account of caring for an elderly loved one. Along the way, she notes the spiritual challenges she encountered--not the least of which included fear of her own suffering and death. (Practical Life)  Read more...

 
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Overview
Owens gives a clear and realistic account of caring for an elderly loved one. Along the way, she notes the spiritual challenges she encountered--not the least of which included fear of her own suffering and death. (Practical Life)

 
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  • ISBN-13: 9780664231521
  • ISBN-10: 0664231527
  • Publisher: Westminster John Knox Press
  • Publish Date: May 2007
  • Page Count: 163


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  • Reviewed in: Publishers Weekly, page 48.
  • Review Date: 2007-04-09
  • Reviewer: Staff

Death is never timely: it comes either too soon or too late. In The Year of Magical Thinking, Joan Didion recounts the aftermath of her husband's sudden death at the dinner table. At the other edge of the spectrum, Owens describes seven years preceding her mother's relentless descent into dementia, "God's own breath slowly leaking out through the fissures in her brain." Afflicted first with Parkinson's, then small strokes and Alzheimer's disease, Mrs. Stem eventually required round-the-clock care. Owens moved next door and spent hours every day with her: "All I could do was squat beside the avalanche, listening for any sign of life; sometimes I could hear a faint but familiar echo of her voice or gesture from under the heap." Through essays as incisive and insightful as Didion's, this account succeeds on multiple levels: medical detective story, personal memoir, flawless description, philosophical and spiritual exploration (where is the self when the brain no longer functions normally?). Owens offers not self-help but hope as she bears witness to the grief and glory of life's ending: "If love... weren't the center from which life flows, if it didn't, as Dante says, move the stars, how could we bear such weight?" (June)

 
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