As a Gentleman Would Say : Responses to Life's Important (and Sometimes Awkward) Situations
by John Bridges and Bryan Curtis and Thomas Nelson Publishers

Overview - This easily accessible etiquette book focuses on those moments when knowing exactly what to say is both challenging and important. The authors provide common-sense, yet courteous suggestions for surviving even the most awkward moments with style and good grace.  Read more...

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More About As a Gentleman Would Say by John Bridges; Bryan Curtis; Thomas Nelson Publishers

This easily accessible etiquette book focuses on those moments when knowing exactly what to say is both challenging and important. The authors provide common-sense, yet courteous suggestions for surviving even the most awkward moments with style and good grace.

  • ISBN-13: 1558538461
  • ISBN-10: 1558538461
  • Publisher: Thomas Nelson Publishers
  • Publish Date: May 2001
  • Page Count: 160

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Slam dunk

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Good bet

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Tool time

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Fast lane

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Car talk

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Say what?

Finally, any sensitive guy will admit his manners could use a refresher course. As a Gentleman Would Say: Responses to Life's Important (and Sometimes Awkward) Situations is the latest entry in a series of Gentlemanners books designed to remind us of the most thoughtful and decent ways to cope with potentially tough social situations. Co-written by John Bridges and Bryan Curtis, the book posits dozens of scenarios - at parties, dining out, at work, in love and friendship, making a toast - and gives some possible responses, both the taboo, humorous types and the well-considered gentlemanly ones. A witty and useful book, appropriate for maybe more men than we would like to think about.

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