In this supportive and straightforward guide, Lundy Bancroft, the author of Why Does He Do That? , and communication specialist JAC Patrissi offer a way for women to practically take stock of their relationships and move forward with or without their partners. Read more...
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In this supportive and straightforward guide, Lundy Bancroft, the author of Why Does He Do That?, and communication specialist JAC Patrissi offer a way for women to practically take stock of their relationships and move forward with or without their partners.
Women involved in chronically frustrating or unfulfilling relationships will learn to:
Tell the difference between a healthy-yet-difficult relationship and one that is really not working
Recognize the signs that their partner has a serious problem
Stop waiting to see what happens-and make their own growth the top priority
Prepare for life without their partner-even as they keep trying to make the relationship work"
Publishers Weekly® Reviews
- Reviewed in: Publishers Weekly, page .
- Review Date: 2011-10-31
- Reviewer: Staff
Relationships usually reach the point where one partner must decide whether to leave or keep trying to make it work. This decision becomes more difficult as women (the book's target audience) negotiate relationships with partners who are abusive, mentally ill, addicted to drugs or alcohol, or seriously immature. This comprehensive book helps women learn how to establish boundaries, recognize the signs of these behaviors, decide how much they want to support their partners through their personal growth and finally, if they decide to leave, how to do so safely and effectively. Bancroft (Why Does He Do That?) and women's advocate Patrissi provide checklists that highlight behavioral differences between unhealthy relationships and those with normal communication and negotiation patterns. Though they briefly touch on the possibility that the woman is the problematic half, the book focuses on men with demonstrable issues. Women needing to check in objectively on their relationship's health will find this book quite useful, but those looking to improve an otherwise decent relationship will find scant details. (Nov.)