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Lesbian Ex-Lovers : The Really Long-Term Relationships
by Esther D. Rothblum and Jacqueline Weinstock




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"We have earned a certain place in each other's lives, and in the best of times we can rest on what we have made together."

Lesbian Ex-Lovers: The Really Long-Term Relationships examines the need for the development of better understanding and more critical analysis of lesbian ex-lover relationships. This eye-opening look into the minds and hearts of women offers personal insight into the possibilities for and potential pitfalls of lesbian ex-lover relations. This book contains personal stories, fictional accounts, poetry, and theoretical analyses of the frequency and significance of ex-lovers at different stages in a relationship.

Topics of interest in Lesbian Ex-Lovers include:

  • the roles ex-lovers play in our lives
  • ex-lovers as contexts for change and development
  • how we continue to be influenced by ex-lovers
  • letting go and moving on
  • ex-lovers as current friends and family
  • themes of betrayal and loss of faith
  • reconstructing friendships and community
  • the mystique of the ex-lover
  • friend/family connections among lesbian ex-lovers
"Rather than totally scrap a relationship, we recycle it--from lover to ex-lover to friend in a relatively short half-life."

Lesbian Ex-Lovers is the only book in print that explores how a lesbian's ex-lovers impact her subsequent romances and lifestyle. This special collection adds a new dynamic to the current literature for and about the lesbian community.

Lesbian Ex-Lovers offers advice, anecdotes, and interpretations from such authors, poetesses, and artists as:

  • Michelle Gibson, PhD--educator and editor of Femme/Butch: New Considerations of the Way We Want to Go-- who says goodbye to her lover in a sad, passionate elegy
  • Marny Hall--Psychotherapist, editor of the anthology Sexualities, and author of several books, including The Lavender Couch: A Consumer's Guide to Psychotherapy for Lesbians and Gay Men--who muses on the unique bonding between lesbians and their ex-lovers, lending a mystique that surrounds the lesbian lifestyle
  • Alison Bechdel--creator of the comic strip Dykes to Watch Out For--who presents a humorous comic strip thanking her former lovers for teaching her about herself
  • Jane Futcher--newspaper reporter and author of three novels--who uses a chapter in her novel to illustrate the tensions that can occur when ex-lovers choose to remain friends, especially when those bonds provoke jealousy in both current and ex-lovers
  • Renny Christopher--educator and award-winning poetess--who expresses her love, loss, and regret in three poems about her ex-lover
  • and much more

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Overview

"We have earned a certain place in each other's lives, and in the best of times we can rest on what we have made together."

Lesbian Ex-Lovers: The Really Long-Term Relationships examines the need for the development of better understanding and more critical analysis of lesbian ex-lover relationships. This eye-opening look into the minds and hearts of women offers personal insight into the possibilities for and potential pitfalls of lesbian ex-lover relations. This book contains personal stories, fictional accounts, poetry, and theoretical analyses of the frequency and significance of ex-lovers at different stages in a relationship.

Topics of interest in Lesbian Ex-Lovers include:

  • the roles ex-lovers play in our lives
  • ex-lovers as contexts for change and development
  • how we continue to be influenced by ex-lovers
  • letting go and moving on
  • ex-lovers as current friends and family
  • themes of betrayal and loss of faith
  • reconstructing friendships and community
  • the mystique of the ex-lover
  • friend/family connections among lesbian ex-lovers
"Rather than totally scrap a relationship, we recycle it--from lover to ex-lover to friend in a relatively short half-life."

Lesbian Ex-Lovers is the only book in print that explores how a lesbian's ex-lovers impact her subsequent romances and lifestyle. This special collection adds a new dynamic to the current literature for and about the lesbian community.

Lesbian Ex-Lovers offers advice, anecdotes, and interpretations from such authors, poetesses, and artists as:

  • Michelle Gibson, PhD--educator and editor of Femme/Butch: New Considerations of the Way We Want to Go-- who says goodbye to her lover in a sad, passionate elegy
  • Marny Hall--Psychotherapist, editor of the anthology Sexualities, and author of several books, including The Lavender Couch: A Consumer's Guide to Psychotherapy for Lesbians and Gay Men--who muses on the unique bonding between lesbians and their ex-lovers, lending a mystique that surrounds the lesbian lifestyle
  • Alison Bechdel--creator of the comic strip Dykes to Watch Out For--who presents a humorous comic strip thanking her former lovers for teaching her about herself
  • Jane Futcher--newspaper reporter and author of three novels--who uses a chapter in her novel to illustrate the tensions that can occur when ex-lovers choose to remain friends, especially when those bonds provoke jealousy in both current and ex-lovers
  • Renny Christopher--educator and award-winning poetess--who expresses her love, loss, and regret in three poems about her ex-lover
  • and much more


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Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781560232827
  • ISBN-10: 156023282X
  • Publisher: Routledge
  • Publish Date: November 2004
  • Page Count: 268
  • Dimensions: 8.74 x 6.34 x 0.89 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.27 pounds

Series: Monograph Published Simultaneously as the Journal of Lesbian #8

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