Breaking the Ice : The Young Hockey Player's Guide to Coming Out
Overview
You can love hockey. You can love another boy. You never had to choose.
Growing up gay in hockey culture can feel like living two separate lives.
One life belongs on the ice-where you're expected to be tough, fearless, and part of the team.
The other stays hidden, protected by silence and fear.
Breaking the Ice is a compassionate, practical guide for LGBTQ+ teens and young adults who are finding their identity while navigating the unique pressures of competitive sport.
Drawing on personal experience, psychology, and realistic stories of young athletes, Brian Stevenson explores the emotional journey from secrecy to authenticity. Rather than urging dramatic gestures, he offers thoughtful, achievable steps that help readers move forward at a pace that feels safe.
Inside you'll learn how to:
understand the emotional cost of staying hidden
find the courage to trust someone with your truth
identify supportive friends and allies
handle fears about teammates, coaches, and family
build healthy romantic relationships
develop lasting confidence and self-acceptance
Structured like a hockey season-from The Cold Season through Melt, Skate, and Shine-the book combines relatable stories, practical exercises, and encouraging advice into a roadmap that readers can return to whenever they need it.
This isn't simply a coming-out guide.
It's a reminder that authenticity isn't a weakness. It's a strength.
If you've ever wondered whether there's room in hockey for every part of who you are, Breaking the Ice has an answer:
There is.
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Details
- ISBN-13: 9798191168180
- ISBN-10: 9798191168180
- Publisher: Independently Published
- Publish Date: August 2026
- Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.14 inches
- Shipping Weight: 0.22 pounds
- Page Count: 66
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