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Cheater!|Roy Moses

Cheater! : Why We Betray the Ones We Love - The Psychology of Infidelity, How It Happens, and How to Prevent It

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Overview

Why do people cheat-even when they still love their partner?

Infidelity is easy to judge and surprisingly difficult to understand. We call someone a "cheater" and think we have explained everything. But a verdict is not an explanation.

In CHEATER , Roy Moses looks beneath the betrayal to examine the psychological, emotional, neurological, and situational forces that can turn ordinary choices into extraordinary damage.

Drawing on relationship psychology, attachment theory, evolutionary psychology, and clinical perspectives on couples and betrayal, this book explores:

  • Why people become unfaithful-and why infidelity is not always caused by an unhappy relationship
  • What actually counts as cheating, including emotional, physical, and digital infidelity
  • How attraction, validation, novelty, attachment styles, personality, and opportunity influence risk
  • How seemingly innocent friendships can gradually become emotional affairs
  • Why texting, social media, dating apps, and digital secrecy have transformed modern infidelity
  • How lies, cover stories, compartmentalization, and deception allow affairs to continue
  • The difference between situational cheaters and serial cheaters
  • How betrayal affects the betrayed partner, the person who cheated, children, and the wider family
  • Whether a relationship can survive infidelity-and what genuine reconciliation requires
  • How couples can protect their relationship through boundaries, communication, emotional intimacy, transparency, and deliberate connection
  • When rebuilding trust is possible-and when leaving may be the healthier choice

This book does not excuse cheating. It does something more difficult: it tries to understand it without reducing human behavior to simple moral labels.

For the person who cheated, CHEATER offers a path toward honest self-examination rather than denial or empty shame. For the person who was betrayed, it provides language for an experience that can be almost impossible to explain. And for couples who want to protect what they have, it offers practical ways to recognize vulnerability before secrecy becomes betrayal.

Because understanding why infidelity happens is not the same as forgiving it.

It is the first step toward preventing it, surviving it, or deciding what comes next.

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Details

  • ISBN-13: 9798190481822
  • ISBN-10: 9798190481822
  • Publisher: Independently Published
  • Publish Date: August 2026
  • Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.34 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 0.38 pounds
  • Page Count: 136

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