{ "item_title" : "Creating Your Ideal Partner Checklist", "item_author" : [" Danielle A. Calise "], "item_description" : "Previously published as Creating Your Ideal Partner Checklist by Danielle A. Calise.You can know exactly what you want in a relationship-and still find yourself making exceptions for the wrong person.Chemistry can be real. Attraction can be powerful. Someone can be funny, successful, generous, exciting, or deeply familiar. None of those things automatically mean he can build the kind of relationship or life you actually want.Creating Your Ideal Partner Checklist helps you stop choosing a partner first and deciding what matters afterward.Instead, you begin with your own life.What do you want your days to look like? What kind of relationship are you actually offering? What do you need in order to feel respected, secure, desired, supported, and free to remain yourself? Which things are essential-and which things can genuinely bend?Then you learn how to compare the person in front of you with the standards you created before he had a chance to influence them.Inside, you'll learn how to: Build a clear Relationship Blueprint around the life you actually wantSeparate Locked Doors, Core Needs, Flexible Agreements, and preferencesTell the difference between desire, capacity, compatibility, and availabilityAsk better questions without turning dating into an interrogationWatch what someone consistently does-not just what he promisesRecognize when one impressive quality is hiding a serious problemSeparate what you know from what you hope, fear, assume, or still do not knowStop giving potential the same weight as demonstrated behaviorMake room for real differences in health, disability, money, work, family, and capacity without abandoning your own needsKnow when you have enough information to make a decision-and let the answer be the answerThis is not a book about designing a perfect man.It is about defining the life and relationship you want first, then asking whether the person you are considering has actually shown that he can participate in it.Because a good man can still be the wrong partner for you.And the goal is not to create a perfect man on paper.The goal is to stop promoting men into roles they have not shown they can fill.A Cut the Cord Companion. Can be read on its own or after Cut the Cord Between Your Heart and Your Vagina.", "item_img_path" : "https://covers2.booksamillion.com/covers/bam/9/79/817/565/9798175653213_b.jpg", "price_data" : { "retail_price" : "9.99", "online_price" : "9.99", "our_price" : "9.99", "club_price" : "9.99", "savings_pct" : "0", "savings_amt" : "0.00", "club_savings_pct" : "0", "club_savings_amt" : "0.00", "discount_pct" : "10", "store_price" : "" } }

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