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Cutting Into It
The Relational Operating System for Self-Leadership
By Lisa M. Gunshore Sundara Rishika Devi

What if the exhaustion you feel isn't just physical... but relational?

What if the anxiety, overthinking, emotional burnout, people-pleasing, over-giving, and repeated relationship patterns are not proof that you are broken - but signs that you have spent years abandoning yourself in order to maintain connection?

Cutting Into It is a transformative guide to recognizing the unconscious relational patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of over-functioning, emotional exhaustion, anxious attachment, avoidance, self-abandonment, and nervous system overwhelm.

Blending personal reflection, nervous system awareness, attachment theory, contemplative practice, and practical self-leadership tools, Lisa M. Gunshore (Sundara Rishika Devi) offers a compassionate yet deeply honest framework for learning how to remain anchored within yourself while navigating relationships, conflict, uncertainty, intimacy, family dynamics, work, and everyday life.

This is not a book about becoming perfect.

It is a book about becoming conscious.

Inside, readers will explore:

  • The hidden cost of over-functioning and emotional labor

  • Attachment patterns and relational survival strategies

  • The Drama Triangle and unconscious relational roles

  • Nervous system regulation and emotional awareness

  • How to interrupt reactive patterns in real time

  • Boundaries, self-leadership, and emotional responsibility

  • Practical daily and weekly integration practices

  • A 12-month journey of relational realignment and embodiment

At the heart of this work is one guiding principle:

I stay anchored. I don't manage others.

Written for healers, caretakers, sensitive souls, leaders, and anyone tired of losing themselves inside relationships, Cutting Into It invites readers into a new way of living - one rooted not in performance, control, or emotional survival, but in truth, embodiment, responsibility, and self-connection.

This is not simply a healing journey.

It is a return to yourself.

This item is Non-Returnable

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  • ISBN-13: 9798196137181
  • ISBN-10: 9798196137181
  • Publisher: Independently Published
  • Publish Date: May 2026
  • Dimensions: 11 x 8.5 x 0.61 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.49 pounds
  • Page Count: 290

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