{ "item_title" : "Why Did He Do That?", "item_author" : [" Vicki N. Ray "], "item_description" : "DisclaimerPreviously published as WHY DID HE DO THAT? INSIDE THE MINDS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENT MEN by VICKI N. RAY.This revised and expanded edition has been thoroughly updated with new research, expanded chapters, improved organization, and additional practical guidance while preserving the core purpose of the original work. WHY DID HE DO THAT?INSIDE THE MINDS OF DOMESTICALLY VIOLENT MENSome of the deepest wounds in domestic abuse are not the bruises that can be seen. They are the questions that remain unanswered.Why did he do that?Why does he seem kind to everyone else but cruel behind closed doors?Why does he promise to change after every incident, only to repeat the same behaviour?Why does he blame the victim for the violence he chose?Why does leaving often make the danger worse?Why do intelligent, capable people stay in relationships that are destroying them?For generations, these questions have been answered with myths, assumptions, and advice that often places responsibility on the wrong person. This book was written to replace confusion with understanding.Drawing on decades of psychological research, criminology, trauma studies, behavioural science, and the work of leading domestic violence researchers and practitioners, WHY DID HE DO THAT? examines domestic abuse from the inside out. Rather than relying on stereotypes or sensational stories, it explores the beliefs, attitudes, and patterns of control that drive abusive behaviour while exposing the misconceptions that allow it to continue.Inside this revised edition, you will discover:- Why domestic violence is fundamentally about power, control, and entitlement-not simply anger or stress.- The psychological tactics abusive men use to manipulate, isolate, intimidate, and maintain control.- How abuse gradually escalates, often in ways that victims themselves struggle to recognise.- Why apologies, gifts, and temporary kindness can become part of the cycle of abuse.- The lasting effects of domestic violence on victims, children, families, and future generations.- The warning signs that research has linked to an increased risk of severe or lethal violence.- Practical guidance on safety planning, legal protection, professional support, recovery, and rebuilding life after abuse.- The realities of rehabilitation-both for survivors seeking healing and for perpetrators facing accountability.Written in clear, compassionate language, this book does not sensationalize violence or reduce survivors to statistics. It places victims at the centre of the conversation while remaining firmly grounded in evidence. Every chapter has been carefully structured to help readers understand not only what happens in abusive relationships, but why it happens and what can be done about it.Whether you are a survivor searching for answers, a family member desperate to help someone you love, a counsellor, teacher, healthcare professional, law enforcement officer, student, or simply someone who wants to better understand one of society's most misunderstood problems, this book offers knowledge that can change the way domestic violence is seen-and responded to.Domestic violence thrives in silence, confusion, denial, and misplaced blame.Understanding breaks that silence.Knowledge challenges those myths.Awareness saves lives.Because behind every statistic is a person who deserved to be treated with dignity, safety, and respect.And sometimes, understanding why he did it becomes the first step toward ensuring it never happens again.", "item_img_path" : "https://covers3.booksamillion.com/covers/bam/9/79/818/687/9798186873662_b.jpg", "price_data" : { "retail_price" : "13.50", "online_price" : "13.50", "our_price" : "13.50", "club_price" : "13.50", "savings_pct" : "0", "savings_amt" : "0.00", "club_savings_pct" : "0", "club_savings_amt" : "0.00", "discount_pct" : "10", "store_price" : "" } }

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