{ "item_title" : "The Fathers Nobody Warned", "item_author" : [" Mason R. Ellery "], "item_description" : "When a Thought Starts Running the Day Your mind showed you the worst thing you could imagine. Then you started parenting around it. A frightening intrusive thought can turn bath time, nappy changes, stairways, kitchens, or time alone with your baby into a test of what kind of father you are. You may start checking, avoiding, handing care back to your partner, or trying to prove the thought means nothing. Those strategies can bring short-term relief while quietly shrinking your role as a dad. A Practical Way Back In The Fathers Nobody Warned explains how intrusive thoughts, harm OCD patterns, and compulsive avoidance can show up during the first two years of fatherhood. Written for new fathers in plain, careful language, it separates an unwanted thought from intent, explains why certainty-seeking keeps the loop going, and shows when a concern belongs with an OCD-informed clinician or urgent in-person help. The Stay-In Ladder At the center of the book is the Stay-In Ladder, a practical framework for returning to ordinary parenting tasks without turning each task into a test. Through realistic composite examples, short exercises, partner scripts, and step-by-step re-entry plans, the book shows how to notice reassurance loops, reduce avoidance, talk with a partner without making them the judge of every thought, and prepare for an evidence-based treatment conversation. This Book Is for Readers Who... This book is for readers who have started avoiding being alone with their baby; who dread bathing, changing, carrying, or settling their child because of intrusive thoughts; who keep checking what a thought means; who feel pulled toward repeated reassurance; or who want language for discussing paternal mental health without sensationalizing it. Stay in the Role You Want The book does not diagnose readers, promise certainty, or treat every disturbing thought as OCD. It gives fathers a structured way to understand the pattern, protect genuine safety, and stay involved in the ordinary care that fatherhood requires. If you want a clear, practical guide to intrusive thoughts and harm OCD in new fatherhood, The Fathers Nobody Warned offers a grounded place to begin.", "item_img_path" : "https://covers3.booksamillion.com/covers/bam/1/91/183/874/1911838741_b.jpg", "price_data" : { "retail_price" : "17.99", "online_price" : "17.99", "our_price" : "17.99", "club_price" : "17.99", "savings_pct" : "0", "savings_amt" : "0.00", "club_savings_pct" : "0", "club_savings_amt" : "0.00", "discount_pct" : "10", "store_price" : "" } }

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