{ "item_title" : "The Person They Told You to Be", "item_author" : [" Marcus Lowe "], "item_description" : "Before you could think, people were already thinking for you.Your beliefs. Your desires. Your fears. Your definition of success. Your sense of what you are worth and what you are allowed to want. Most of what you call your personality was not chosen. It was installed. By your family, your culture, your religion, your school, and a world that needed you to be a particular kind of person before you were old enough to ask whether that was actually who you were.This book is about the gap between the person you were told to be and the person you actually are.For most people, that gap is never examined. The inherited identity runs on autopilot, quietly governing every decision, every relationship, every ambition, and every fear, while the person living inside it mistakes the programming for themselves.This book ends that confusion.Across five parts and eighteen chapters, The Person They Told You to Be walks through the full architecture of conditioned identity: where it comes from, how it runs, what it costs you, and what is waiting on the other side of it.Inside, you will find:How your identity was constructed before you were old enough to consent to itThe invisible scripts your culture wrote for you that still govern your choices todayWhy the labels given to you in childhood are still running your adult lifeWho taught you to want what you want, and whether any of it is actually yoursHow the beauty industry, the success industry, and the approval industry installed their standards inside your mind and made them feel like your own conclusionsWhy change feels like death, even when what you are changing is something that was never really youThe voice behind the noise: the awareness that has been present through every version of yourself and belongs to none of themWhat it means to unlearn, to stop needing permission, and to finally become the author of your own lifeThe greatest question is not who am I.The greatest question is: who would I have become if nobody had told me who to be?You were never broken. You were buried. Beneath expectations, labels, beliefs, and instructions that were never yours in the first place.This book is the excavation.", "item_img_path" : "https://covers3.booksamillion.com/covers/bam/9/79/818/405/9798184057170_b.jpg", "price_data" : { "retail_price" : "9.99", "online_price" : "9.99", "our_price" : "9.99", "club_price" : "9.99", "savings_pct" : "0", "savings_amt" : "0.00", "club_savings_pct" : "0", "club_savings_amt" : "0.00", "discount_pct" : "10", "store_price" : "" } }

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