{ "item_title" : "Problems & Recovery with Adult Children", "item_author" : [" Sara Giovani "], "item_description" : "You held the family together. Now it's time to hold yourself.Maybe you grew up with a parent who drank. Maybe it was rage, silence, depression, control, or a parent who was there but never really saw you. You learned to watch the room, keep the peace and need nothing. Those skills kept you safe as a child.As an adult, they show up as anxiety that never switches off. You say yes when you mean no, then feel quietly resentful. You're exhausted from being the strong one. Relationships keep following a script you never agreed to. And a voice inside keeps asking, Was it really that bad?It was enough to shape you. And it's enough to heal from.Problems & Recovery with Adult Children is a warm, research-grounded, highly visual workbook. It shows you how the role you were cast in as a child still runs your life, and gives you a clear path out of it.Inside you'll find: The family roles, explained. The Hero, the Scapegoat, the Lost Child, the Mascot and the Caretaker: which one you played, what it gave you and what it cost you.The parentified child and the eldest daughter. What happens when a child becomes the third parent, and how to finally put that job down.What your body remembers. Why you're still braced for storms that ended years ago, and practical tools to calm your nervous system.The traits of adult children, reread. Each pattern paired with the childhood logic behind it and what recovery looks like.The 9 pain points, 9 fears, 9 desires and 9 dreams adult children describe most, each tied to the emotional reason behind it.A dedicated chapter for adult children of alcoholics. It covers your own drinking risk, what to do when a parent is still drinking, enabling versus helping, and where to find support.Why the usual fixes stall. An honest look at therapy, self-help books, social media, confronting parents and cutting contact: what each one helps and where it falls short.Reparenting and the inner child. How to become the steady, loving adult you needed, using a step-by-step map of the childhood milestones you missed.Boundaries without burning the house down. Contact levels, ready-to-use scripts and a holiday survival plan.Grief, anger and forgiveness, on your own terms and your own timeline.What makes this workbook different: The Recasting Method. A four-step path: name the role, calm the body, reparent the missed milestone, rehearse the new role.A 90-day plan that turns insight into daily change in just ten minutes a day.Over 50 charts, diagrams and tables, every statistic cited to its source.In every chapter: What People Get Wrong myth-busters, pro-tips, hidden pitfalls and exercises.Worksheets ready to print, including a role self-assessment, a fear ladder, a desire compass, a support map and a 90-day tracker.Whether your home had alcohol, addiction, chaos or simply a parent who couldn't show up, this book was written for you.Your role helped you survive. It doesn't have to run your life.", "item_img_path" : "https://covers1.booksamillion.com/covers/bam/2/49/170/410/2491704102_b.jpg", "price_data" : { "retail_price" : "39.97", "online_price" : "39.97", "our_price" : "39.97", "club_price" : "39.97", "savings_pct" : "0", "savings_amt" : "0.00", "club_savings_pct" : "0", "club_savings_amt" : "0.00", "discount_pct" : "10", "store_price" : "" } }

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