{ "item_title" : "Relationsh*t", "item_author" : [" Abhirup Roy "], "item_description" : "Based on Relationsh*t, it is intended to modern people in their dating journey by shifting the focus from How do I find the right person? to How do I understand, choose, and build the right relationship?How it helps someone navigating modern datingUnderstand the modern dating environmentIt explains how dating apps, endless choice, instant gratification, and the easy availability of alternatives can encourage people to keep looking rather than invest deeply in one connection.Recognise situationships before getting deeply attachedReaders learn to distinguish casual dating from an emotionally intimate but undefined connection, and to notice signs such as vague future plans, uncertainty, compartmentalisation, and difficulty expressing needs.Choose a partner based on behaviour, not just chemistryThe book encourages readers to observe how someone handles failure, other people, stress, responsibility, family patterns, and difficult situations-not just how attractive or exciting they are during the early dating phase.Learn the difference between red flags and normal relationship difficultiesInstead of treating every disagreement as a reason to leave, the book introduces the distinction between isolated moments and repeating patterns. That can help people assess whether they're experiencing a temporary rough patch or a deeper recurring problem.Understand what trust actually looks likeTrust is presented as something that develops through repeated evidence-consistency, honesty, follow-through, and behaviour over time-rather than something that should simply be assumed because of attraction or promises.Move from Do they love me? to Are we actually building something?One of the book's central ideas is that love and commitment aren't identical. It encourages readers to look at whether both people are actively choosing the relationship and investing in it.Develop better communicationThe book distinguishes criticism from constructive guidance and encourages conversations that address problems without turning the partner into the problem. This is particularly useful when the initial excitement of dating gives way to real-life disagreements.Think about long-term compatibility, not just immediate chemistryIt asks an important dating question: Are we moving in compatible directions? Career ambitions, money, lifestyle, family, location, and future goals eventually become relationship issues, even when they don't seem important during early dating.Understand commitment in a world full of alternativesThe book's perspective is that modern commitment requires conscious attention. Staying together isn't simply about continuing to love someone; it involves repeatedly turning toward them, repairing problems, showing appreciation, and protecting time for the relationship.Learn to build a relationship rather than merely have oneUltimately, the book argues that strong relationships are created through thousands of ordinary choices-listening, repairing after conflict, putting the phone away, discussing money, appreciating each other, trying new things together, and building a shared life.That is probably the strongest practical value proposition of Relationsh*t: it isn't primarily a book about getting a date. It's about helping someone avoid wasting years in the wrong kind of connection and giving them a framework for turning the right connection into a real partnership.Modern dating teaches you how to find someone. Relationsh*t teaches you what to do after you find them.", "item_img_path" : "https://covers1.booksamillion.com/covers/bam/9/79/816/154/9798161542316_b.jpg", "price_data" : { "retail_price" : "12.99", "online_price" : "12.99", "our_price" : "12.99", "club_price" : "12.99", "savings_pct" : "0", "savings_amt" : "0.00", "club_savings_pct" : "0", "club_savings_amt" : "0.00", "discount_pct" : "10", "store_price" : "" } }

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