{ "item_title" : "The Secret of Being Human", "item_author" : [" Hrh Prince Gharios El Al-Nu'man VIII "], "item_description" : "How much of the person you call me did you actually choose? Your body changes your judgment before your conscious mind notices. Childhood installs rules you may spend decades mistaking for personality. Memory continually edits the past, emotion arrives carrying conclusions, identity protects beliefs from evidence, and the need to belong places an invisible crowd inside your head.Then you call the result me.The Secret of Being Human: The Hidden Forces That Make Us Who We Are is an accessible, provocative exploration of human behavior, identity, consciousness, responsibility, and change. Combining psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, social science, and vivid personal experience, Gharios El Chemor exposes the machinery beneath the stories we tell about ourselves.This book explores why: - Your brain prioritizes survival and fast action over perfectly accurate perception- Your physical condition changes what appears reasonable, hopeless, threatening, or desirable- Childhood patterns continue operating long after their original purpose has disappeared- Memory creates coherent stories rather than preserving flawless recordings- Feelings contain valuable information without automatically delivering reliable verdicts- Intelligent people often become more skilled at defending what they already want to believe- Identity can provide dignity and belonging while quietly imprisoning thought- Good intentions do not protect other people from harmful consequences- Love fails when expectations remain invisible and each person assumes the other should simply know- Responsibility can remain real even when human freedom is constrained- Lasting transformation depends less on dramatic insight than on repeated constructive actionAt the center of the book is the Human Field Map: six interacting forces-Body, Past, Crowd, Story, Situation, and Agency-that shape every human moment. Once those forces become visible, readers can use the Agency Aperture, Sovereign Perspective, Triple Accord, and Human Test to identify what is happening, separate evidence from reaction, calibrate responsibility, repair relationships, and choose a more constructive next move.The book neither reduces people to helpless products of biology and circumstance nor pretends that determination can overcome every limitation. Its central principle is more honest: influence is not destiny, and explanation is not acquittal. Understanding why something happened does not erase responsibility; it makes intelligent change possible.The expanded reader toolkit includes practical worksheets, a fully completed Human Test, a thirty-day behavior log, weekly review questions, safeguards against rationalization, and clear guidance about when reflection is insufficient and qualified help is necessary.For readers interested in human psychology, self-awareness, critical thinking, emotional intelligence, relationships, free will, identity, personal growth, and the hidden causes of behavior, The Secret of Being Human offers a compassionate but unsentimental way of seeing ourselves.You did not write the first draft of yourself. The moment you recognize what has been writing through you, however, you become a co-author of what comes next.", "item_img_path" : "https://covers1.booksamillion.com/covers/bam/9/79/819/253/9798192533932_b.jpg", "price_data" : { "retail_price" : "24.99", "online_price" : "24.99", "our_price" : "24.99", "club_price" : "24.99", "savings_pct" : "0", "savings_amt" : "0.00", "club_savings_pct" : "0", "club_savings_amt" : "0.00", "discount_pct" : "10", "store_price" : "" } }

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