Starting Again in the Middle
Overview
When a life comes apart in the middle, the problem is rarely effort. It is doing the right things in the wrong order.
A job gone. A marriage ended. A business closed. A move that did not work. It happens to competent people in their thirties, forties and fifties, and the advice written for the young does not fit, because you are carrying weight: a household, children, a mortgage, and a set of people who know you as someone else.
Starting Again in the Middle is a practical manual for putting a life back together, written as a sequence rather than a philosophy. No promises, no transformation, no claims that thinking differently will change your circumstances. Just the order of operations, from the first month to the day you notice it is behind you.
What's inside:
- The first month, when the only job is keeping shelter, food and your own body running
- The fourteen-day sheet, and how to phone before a missed payment instead of after
- The paperwork nobody warns you about, and the categories that quietly cost the most
- A household budget rebuilt from zero as arithmetic rather than as a verdict on your character
- How to tell urgent from important when everything feels urgent
- Why income comes before the right job, and why that order protects your ambition rather than betraying it
- Explaining a gap or a failure in two sentences, without lying and without over-explaining
- Contacting the professional network you feel embarrassed to contact
- The friends who show up, the ones who do not, and why
- Living somewhere smaller, and deciding early enough to still have options
- Shared and single parenting through it, practically
- The body treated as maintenance, not transformation
- The flat middle - the long gray stretch nobody warns you about, and where most people give up
- The first sign things have turned, and how not to over-read it
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Details
- ISBN-13: 9788327772374
- ISBN-10: 8327772376
- Publisher: Deborah Kestleman
- Publish Date: October 2026
- Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.33 inches
- Shipping Weight: 0.47 pounds
- Page Count: 152
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