Overview
You're not an angry guy. You're a guy carrying too much, with nowhere to put it.
Most men were taught one rule about feelings: hold it in. Walk it off. Just deal with it. So the pressure builds - work, money, family, too little sleep - until it comes out on its own. A yell over spilled juice. A week of cold silence. A third drink on a Tuesday.
In Steady, Elliot Nash shows you where that pressure comes from, where it goes when you hold it in, and how to let it out on purpose. No therapy-speak. No punching pillows. Just a simple system you can use in the driveway, in the meeting, and at the kitchen table.
Inside, you'll learn:
- The three leaks - Blow, Freeze, and Bolt - and how to spot which one is yours
- Why venting makes anger worse, and what a review of more than 150 studies found actually helps
- The Pressure Valve: five moves (Gauge, Name, Release, Choose, Repair) that take a minute or two each
- A simple breathing technique that beat meditation for mood in a Stanford study
- How to call a time-out in an argument without walking out on your partner
- How to repair with your kids and partner after you've blown it
- How to spot the slow leaks - drinking, scrolling, overworking - and what to swap in
- When stress is actually something more, and how to get help without shame
Every chapter ends with a short This Week action, and the book closes with a 30-Day Steady Plan, a pocket toolkit of scripts and a feelings word ladder, and a printable Pressure Log.
Steady doesn't mean never getting angry. It means you're the one steering.
Steady is Book 2 of The Unspoken Series: practical books for men about the things nobody taught them. Each book stands alone.
This item is Non-Returnable
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Details
- ISBN-13: 9798162141150
- ISBN-10: 9798162141150
- Publisher: Independently Published
- Publish Date: October 2026
- Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.32 inches
- Shipping Weight: 0.42 pounds
- Page Count: 136
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